Assumptions
/ Autumn McKenzie JacksonAssumptions. I have done my share of assuming. Previously, I have thought I was pretty good at it. I used my own eyes and my own experiences to filter and summarize any given situation. I became keenly aware of this when a life event shifted the way that I thought and how I processed information. I am in awe of how drastically it has changed the way in which I see the world. I mean it really is astonishing. With someone else’s eyes and experiences, they may arrive at a completely different conclusion, altogether.
Truth is, you never know what is going on in someone else’s head or the experiences they have had that lead them to their action or inaction. Communication is imperative and dialogue is necessary. Being open minded to the options and possibilities is also a necessary ingredient.
Now, I make fewer assumptions and ask more questions. It helps me get a better understanding of other’s point of reference and allows me to be more receptive to their point of view.
This is my dad, Benjamin McKenzie. He is a handsome tall man. More often than not, you hear me talk about my mom. My mom was the outspoken one and it is easy to give her credit for most but that would be inaccurate.
On paper, I appear to be over committed and pulled by two sports in separate directions.
Today is Audrey’s birthday. She is 14 years old. I must tell you about her! What an extraordinary young lady! In addition to being an excellent student, she plays the saxophone and is an excellent swimmer. She is beautiful…
What beautiful and impactful work you do that has generational and eternal significance!
Then she asked me about my wedding dress and if she could try it on. I told her tomorrow would have been our wedding anniversary.
The last post I wrote was nearly two years ago. I have been grieving, slaying giants, raising champions, and growing in faith.
Tory Palecek is my best friend from college. I met Tory the first day of volleyball preseason freshman year at Colgate University. We were both incoming freshmen. She immediately made an impression on me.