Assumptions
/ Autumn McKenzie JacksonAssumptions. I have done my share of assuming. Previously, I have thought I was pretty good at it. I used my own eyes and my own experiences to filter and summarize any given situation. I became keenly aware of this when a life event shifted the way that I thought and how I processed information. I am in awe of how drastically it has changed the way in which I see the world. I mean it really is astonishing. With someone else’s eyes and experiences, they may arrive at a completely different conclusion, altogether.
Truth is, you never know what is going on in someone else’s head or the experiences they have had that lead them to their action or inaction. Communication is imperative and dialogue is necessary. Being open minded to the options and possibilities is also a necessary ingredient.
Now, I make fewer assumptions and ask more questions. It helps me get a better understanding of other’s point of reference and allows me to be more receptive to their point of view.
While I was at my brother Darrell’s life celebration in NY, there was a windstorm in Maryland. I received a text from my neighbor that they were calling the police
I don’t know exactly when I realized that I was scheduled to work the same day Audrey and I were to fly to Orlando, Fl for National Club Swimming Association (NCSA) Age Group Championships.
As I prepared for my brother’s life celebration, I found out that I had no way to prepare for what I experienced. I already have the utmost admiration for my brother, still, over the course of one afternoon at West Point…
I am certain I did not understand the full significance of what he wrote then nor do I now, but I knew enough to hold onto his letters.
I tend not to be awestruck, but my older brother, Darrell, is an exception. He is my superhero.
Being mothered is a universal experience. It is a life long process.
I am grateful for all those who have touched my life and continue to invest in me in this way. God is intentional.. It is out of the abundance of His love through others that compels me.